Sex biography

That's right. So that you have been born sex and there is a lot of life, emotions and aggression. There was a mother’s pregnancy and her feelings during. And in childbirth, too, and after them, when you were very tiny. And now how often do you live your aggression? What do you feel at all? What do you know about your sex? Do you manage to turn off control, give and accept? What taboos and messages did you get from your parents about sexuality and about life in general?

And not only from parents. What contact did you have with your mother and father? What did you get out of your childhood? There was a lot of experience and he was recorded in your body, in your feelings. Do you love your body? How do you live in it? How do you give love to another? Sex is communication, sometimes only bodies, and if you are lucky, then the shower.

And there will be desire and intimacy. Often in the minds of men, and sometimes women, sex is separated from love and tenderness.

What is your sex? Is he good? Is your life good? What is your life with life, does she have you or you? Or maybe you have reciprocity and passion with her? Do we enter the relationship through sex or sex through the appearance of relations? More and more often in the modern world we replace the living artificial. Porn, toys, operations to gain virginity, swing lips and priests.

And we lose the living, contact, compatibility, sensitivity. What next? Everyone chooses himself. Suppress aggression, preserving your "goodness", in the hope that they will not leave? You go to sex in the hope that there will be a relationship, restraint your desires, you are silent where you need to say. And most importantly, you lose contact with you! You don’t hear, you don’t notice, throw it, betray yourself.

You are so lonely, forget yourself, in pursuit of empty ideals. Perhaps the time has come to ask yourself a lot of questions, stop and look in the depths? There are many surprises and secrets, many fears and pain, many losses and loneliness. This is not easy, but grateful work. To find yourself, your own path, to open yourself as the creator of your life, learn to enjoy being, notice a small one, enjoy clouds and the sun, see miracles in ordinary and ordinary.

This is a long road, to gain sensitivity to the world, to restore boundaries, detect needs, change the usual ways of response. In therapy, changes occur inevitably, just for everyone this path is completely different. It depends on many factors, including the quantity and depth of injuries, the ability to withstand tension and difficulties and continue the work begun.

Initially, confidence between the therapist and the client is established, then it is possible to look deeper and work with more complex and deep things. What you made during the long years cannot be changed in a couple of meetings. But there will be changes if there is a motivation for work. Through another, you can recognize yourself and become more alive, feel holistic and harmonious.